Lynn McLaughlin Lynn McLaughlin

When We Know Better, We MUST Do Better

Australia is leading the way in banning social media for kids under 16. To gain access they are required to upload digital ID. My youngest son is a teacher there and I look forward to his insights.

๐–๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐ฐ๐ž ๐ฐ๐š๐ข๐ญ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ ๐‚๐š๐ง๐š๐๐š? There is more and more indisputable research linking social media to severe challenges for our children and youth. (I am currently doing a literature review.) Let me site some.

๐—ฆ๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ฝ ๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐˜€๐—ฟ๐˜‚๐—ฝ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐Ÿฎ๐Ÿฐ/๐Ÿณ ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ถ๐˜๐˜† (lateโ€‘night scrolling, notifications) links heavy social media or screen time to depressive symptoms and suicidality.

๐—ฆ๐—ผ๐—ฐ๐—ถ๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฝ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐˜€๐—ผ๐—ป ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—น๐—ผ๐˜„ ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ณโ€‘๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—บ. Constant exposure to idealized images and peer feedback loops (likes, comments, follower counts) is associated with body dissatisfaction, low selfโ€‘esteem, and depressive mood, especially in early and midโ€‘adolescent girls.

๐—–๐˜†๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ฏ๐˜‚๐—น๐—น๐˜†๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—น๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฒ ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ณ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ฐ๐˜. The shift from traditional bullying to cyberbullying means harassment can be continuous, public, and difficult to escape, and is strongly associated with nonsuicidal selfโ€‘injury, depression, suicidal ideation and suicide.

๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐˜๐˜€ ๐—ฝ๐—ผ๐˜€๐—ฒ ๐—ฏ๐˜†:

๐—”๐—ป๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜†๐—บ๐—ถ๐˜๐˜† ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ณ๐—ฎ๐—ธ๐—ฒ ๐—ถ๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐—ถ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐˜€. The easy creation of anonymous or fake profiles lets adults pose as peers, celebrities, or recruiters, making grooming and trustโ€‘building feel lowโ€‘risk and lowโ€‘effort for offenders.

๐—ฃ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ฒ ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€๐—ฎ๐—ด๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐˜€๐—ฎ๐—ฝ๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜. Direct messages, encrypted chats, and autoโ€‘deleting photos give predators space to isolate children from watchful adults, escalate conversations, and move quickly to sexual content or requests for images.

๐—™๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—ถ๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐˜…๐˜๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐˜€๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—บ๐˜€. Once a child shares a compromising image or personal information, offenders can demand money, more explicit content, or access to bank and giftโ€‘card details, turning emotional harm into financial exploitation.

We need legislation to put the legal responsibility on the companies to reduce childrenโ€™s exposure to harmful content.

We need a ban on social media, following Australia's lead. Kids should not have access. Period.

Social Media and Childrenโ€™s Mental Health

Australia is leading the way in banning social media for kids under 16. To gain access they are required to upload digital ID. My youngest son is a teacher there and I look forward to his insights.

๐–๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐ฐ๐ž ๐ฐ๐š๐ข๐ญ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ ๐‚๐š๐ง๐š๐๐š? There is more and more indisputable research linking social media to severe challenges for our children and youth. (I am currently doing a literature review.) Let me site some.

๐—ฆ๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ฝ ๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐˜€๐—ฟ๐˜‚๐—ฝ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐Ÿฎ๐Ÿฐ/๐Ÿณ ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ถ๐˜๐˜† (lateโ€‘night scrolling, notifications) links heavy social media or screen time to depressive symptoms and suicidality.

๐—ฆ๐—ผ๐—ฐ๐—ถ๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฝ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐˜€๐—ผ๐—ป ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—น๐—ผ๐˜„ ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ณโ€‘๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—บ. Constant exposure to idealized images and peer feedback loops (likes, comments, follower counts) is associated with body dissatisfaction, low selfโ€‘esteem, and depressive mood, especially in early and midโ€‘adolescent girls.

๐—–๐˜†๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ฏ๐˜‚๐—น๐—น๐˜†๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—น๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฒ ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ณ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ฐ๐˜. The shift from traditional bullying to cyberbullying means harassment can be continuous, public, and difficult to escape, and is strongly associated with nonsuicidal selfโ€‘injury, depression, suicidal ideation and suicide.

๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐˜๐˜€ ๐—ฝ๐—ผ๐˜€๐—ฒ ๐—ฏ๐˜†:

๐—”๐—ป๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜†๐—บ๐—ถ๐˜๐˜† ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ณ๐—ฎ๐—ธ๐—ฒ ๐—ถ๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐—ถ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐˜€. The easy creation of anonymous or fake profiles lets adults pose as peers, celebrities, or recruiters, making grooming and trustโ€‘building feel lowโ€‘risk and lowโ€‘effort for offenders.

๐—ฃ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ฒ ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€๐—ฎ๐—ด๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐˜€๐—ฎ๐—ฝ๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜. Direct messages, encrypted chats, and autoโ€‘deleting photos give predators space to isolate children from watchful adults, escalate conversations, and move quickly to sexual content or requests for images.

๐—™๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—ถ๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐˜…๐˜๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐˜€๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—บ๐˜€. Once a child shares a compromising image or personal information, offenders can demand money, more explicit content, or access to bank and giftโ€‘card details, turning emotional harm into financial exploitation.

We need legislation to put the legal responsibility on the companies to reduce childrenโ€™s exposure to harmful content.

We need a ban on social media, following Australia's lead. Kids should not have access. Period.

When we know better, we ๐— ๐—จ๐—ฆ๐—ง ๐——๐—ข ๐—•๐—˜๐—ง๐—ง๐—˜๐—ฅ!

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